Ramblings of (my view of) marriage II

Haha there was YM leader's meeting just now.

We were initially talking about divorce... and then... it became...
marriage.

=)Haha.

Maybe i should seriously consider praying for the guy God has intended for me. At least pray for him that he's saved, and that he's doing well, and he's growing a lot spiritually. =)

You know theres this romantic line like, "i loved you before i knew you"? I think i wld very much prefer that my future spouse tells me that "i prayed for you before i knew you were the one". Haha. That syntax is highly unromantic however.

Then perhaps i might try to pray too that God will show me the guy too when the time comes, so that i won't miss him or he won't miss me. (imagine the knight and the princess... the knight is riding by on his white horse... but... eh, ooi, he fails to see the princess, who was too busy looking at the wild flowers on the roadside. So they fail to see each other. Boohoo.) (But then again, haha, if its God intended, we will see each other somehow.)

Haha... i wonder how the pairings in church wld be like. I looked around at the YMers and like... there might be a few couples eventually within that lot??!!! I hardly see any remote possibility around. Hah. It'll be interesting to see how things change. It's just so cutteee projecting a possible image of the future, with like people getting married and all. (sometimes i imagine the cute little scenes where we talk to each other's children and go "your mother ahh, when she was young ahh... ...")

Hmmm i do want to get a boyfriend and get married. Just that... i think i still have some time to go before i develop a relationship with the correct one. (maybe i've met him already... .... ...) I mean, i'm really scared that i'm still unprepared, that i might be a witch instead of a princess.

Oh well.

I've mentioned this before i guess but haha i'll just put it down again in the name of fun.

Some of the points which constitute my criteria for a boyfriend is...
1) A christian!!! Someone who loves God more than He loves me. Haha.
2) Someone confident but not egoistic.
3) Someone driven in life, by God and for God. (he should be serving in one way or another too)
4) Someone who would want to have a family and be ready to commit to it.
And a few others.
(oh i don't really have 'smart' as one of my criteria though)

Some things which can melt my heart sometimes...
1) A really nice guy.
2) A really sweet guy.

As you can tell, my standards are high. (whoa i wonder if i can match up to a guy of that kind of calibre...) But anyway. Jesus died on the Cross for both of us, so we don't come cheap k. It's justifiable that the standards are high... i mean, the guy is one in a million!

I pray that i'll be going the straight and God-intended way for me with regards to relationship. =)

Thank God!!!